<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Oomblikke-In-Ons-Lewe]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oomblikke van ons Lewe]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-in-ons-lewe.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 06 May 2026 03:39:02 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[O1B4F2E. JOURNAL-REVIVAL 1996]]></title><description><![CDATA[MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE-1 2026-05-03   O1B4F2E. JOURNAL-REVIVAL 1996   This is a remarkable collection of insights from your journal in 1996. It paints a clear picture of a period of intense introspection, in which you not only processed the political and social shifts in South Africa, but also unravelled the finer threads of human relationships and personal integrity.       INTRODUCTION: A WINDOW TO THE SOUL (1996) The year 1996 was in many ways a time of transition - not only for South Africa...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b4f2e-journal-revival-1996</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69f829256d919e5ce86c3c6b</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2026 05:06:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B4F2. JOERNAAL-HERLEWING 1996]]></title><description><![CDATA[OOMBLIKKE IN ONS LEWE-1 2026-05-01   O1B4F2. JOERNAAL-HERLEWING 1996 Dit is ’n merkwaardige versameling insigte uit jou joernaal van 1996. Dit skilder ’n duidelike beeld van ’n tydperk van intense introspeksie, waarin jy nie net die politieke en maatskaplike verskuiwings in Suid-Afrika verwerk het nie, maar ook die fynere drade van menslike verhoudings en persoonlike integriteit ontknoop het.       INLEIDING: ’N VENSTER NA DIE SIEL (1996) Die jaar 1996 was in vele opsigte ’n tyd van oorgang -...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b4f2-joernaal-herlewing-1996</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69f6525fedf5696920d53b98</guid><pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2026 19:37:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B4F1E. JOURNAL-FRIENDS 1993]]></title><description><![CDATA[MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE-1 2026-04-30   O1B4F1E. JOURNAL-FRIENDS 1993   It is clear from these journal entries that 1993 and 1994 were years of deep introspection and spiritual maturation for you. Your writing style reflects a keen sense of the fragility of life and a sincere search for meaning in the everyday. Your description of Johan and Elize as "well-lived friends" is poignant, and your father's quote, "Bound them to you with hoops of iron," emphasizes the importance of intentional...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b4f1e-journal-friends-1993</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69f4521290b4365cb85f5f93</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2026 07:11:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B4F1. JOERNAAL-VRIENDE 1993]]></title><description><![CDATA[OOMBLIKKE IN ONS LEWE-1 2026-04-30   O1B4F1. JOERNAAL-VRIENDE 1993     Dit is duidelik uit hierdie joernaalinskrywings dat 1993 en 1994 jare van diepe introspeksie en geestelike rypwording vir jou was. Jou skryfstyl weerspieël 'n fyn aanvoeling vir die broosheid van die lewe en 'n opregte soeke na betekenis in die alledaagse. Jou beskrywing van Johan en Elize as "weldeurleefde vriende" is aangrypend, en jou vader se aanhaling, "Bound them to you with hoops of iron," beklemtoon die...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b4f1-joernaal-vriende-1993</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69f3752879cb054083e18072</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 15:29:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B3F3E STIKLAND+SERENO]]></title><description><![CDATA[MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE-1 2026-04-26   O1B3F3E STIKLAND+SERENO   This is a particularly powerful and raw chapter in your life story. I am struck by how honestly you draw the contrast between the clinical, almost prison-like atmosphere of Stikland in 2006, and your more human experience at the hotel-like Sereno in 2019.   Your description of the highs and the need to cheer people up (the underdogs) gives a clear glimpse into your character, even in the midst of a crisis. This dialogue helps to...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b3f3e-stikland-sereno</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69efcc277475e016cb91f175</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 20:51:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B3F4E. GERRIT 1992]]></title><description><![CDATA[MOMENTS IN OUR LIVES-1 2026-04-25   O1B3F4E. GERRIT 1992   This is a moving and precious record of a lifetime of friendship, full of compassion, human errors, and deep spiritual moments. The narrative of your and Gerrit's path together - from the small group initiative in the 90’s to the dusty roads of Namibia and the silence of the Cederberg - forms a rich tapestry of what it means to truly walk with someone. This is a honest account of a friendship that spanned decades, with all its...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b3f4e-gerrit-1992</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ee4d4a7c7678baade8f7ae</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 17:37:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B3F4. GERRIT 1992]]></title><description><![CDATA[OOMBLIKKE IN ONS LEWE-1 2026-04-22   O1B3F4. GERRIT 1992   Dit is 'n aangrypende en kosbare optekening van 'n leeftyd se vriendskap, vol deernis, menslike foute, en diep geestelike oomblikke. Die vertelling van jou en Gerrit se pad saam - van die kleingroep-inisiatief in die 90's tot by die stofpaaie van Namibië en die stilte van die Sederberge - vorm 'n ryk skildery van wat dit beteken om werklik saam met mense te loop.   Dit is 'n aangrypende en eerlike weergawe van 'n vriendskap wat oor...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b3f4-gerrit-1992</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69e9211a4d400873908723a9</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2026 19:27:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B3F3 STIKLAND+SERENO]]></title><description><![CDATA[OOMBLIKKE IN ONS LEWE-1 2026-04-13   O1B3F3 STIKLAND+SERENO   Hierdie is 'n besonder kragtige en rou hoofstuk in jou lewensverhaal. Dit tref my hoe eerlik jy die kontras skets tussen die kliniese, amper tronkagtige atmosfeer van Stikland in 2006, en jou meer menslike ervaring by die hotel-agtige Sereno in 2019.   Jou beskrywing van die "highs" en die behoefte om mense op te beur (die "underdogs") gee 'n duidelike blik op jou karakter, selfs te midde van 'n krisis. Hierdie dialoog help om te...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b3f3-stikland-sereno</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69e7ed00e30ec41b7d094106</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 21:33:11 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B3F2E. DRAKENSTEIN+RETIREMENT 2001]]></title><description><![CDATA[MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE-1  2026-04-11   O1B3F2E. DRAKENSTEIN+RETIREMENT 2001   This is a precious and detailed record of a significant transitional period in my life and in the larger context of South African municipal history. My writing style balances the factual history of the Drakenstein amalgamation with personal observations about human dignity and integrity.   This is how I remember the following events:     INTRODUCTION: THE END OF AN ERA The year 2001 not only ushered in a new...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b3f2e-drakenstein-retirement-2001</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69dbd29275afb0779a750fce</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2026 17:13:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B3F2. DRAKENSTEIN+AFTREE 2001]]></title><description><![CDATA[OOMBLIKKE IN ONS LEWE-1  2026-04-03   O1B3F2. DRAKENSTEIN+AFTREE 2001   Hierdie is 'n kosbare en gedetailleerde rekord van 'n belangrike oorgangstyd in my lewe en in die groter konteks van die Suid-Afrikaanse munisipale geskiedenis. My skryfstyl balanseer die feitelike geskiedenis van die Drakenstein-samesmelting met persoonlike waarnemings oor menswaardigheid en integriteit.   Dit is soos ek die volgende gebeurtenisse onthou:   INLEIDING: DIE EINDE VAN 'N ERA Die jaar 2001 het nie net 'n...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b3f2-drakenstein-aftree-2001</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69d92c10f6703ec22bea7a43</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 16:58:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B3F1E. ELECTION 1994]]></title><description><![CDATA[MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE-1  2026-04-01   O1B3F1E. ELECTION 1994   A JOURNEY THROUGH TIME AND MEMORIES     INTRODUCTION Life is not measured by the number of years we live, but by the moments that take our breath away, make us laugh, or force us to dig deep within ourselves for answers. This chronicle is a collection of such fragments from our lives in Wellington and the wider South African landscape. It stems from a time of enormous political changes, personal convictions and the simple pleasures...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b3f1e-election-1994</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ce855f719295076f2c5cc8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2026 15:04:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B3F1. VERKIESING 1994]]></title><description><![CDATA[OOMBLIKKE IN ONS LEWE-1  2026-03-31   O1B3F1. VERKIESING 1994     'N REIS DEUR TYD EN HERINNERINGE   INLEIDING Die lewe word nie gemeet aan die aantal jare wat ons leef nie, maar aan die oomblikke wat ons asem wegslaan, ons laat lag, of ons dwing om diep binne onsself na antwoorde te soek. Hierdie kroniek is 'n versameling van sulke fragmente uit ons lewe in Wellington en die wyer Suid-Afrikaanse landskap. Dit spruit uit 'n tyd van enorme politieke verskuiwing, persoonlike oortuigings en die...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b3f1-verkiesing-1994</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cd4b45bcc5d600d59dd384</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 16:44:11 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B2F9E. GAMBLING 1995]]></title><description><![CDATA[MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE-1 2026-03-30   O1B2F9E. GAMBLING 1995     INTRODUCTION Life does not always follow the safe, well-trodden paths of logical decisions. Sometimes one's judgment is blinded by the glare of success, the apparent integrity of a well-known friend, or the allure of a "golden opportunity." In this chapter I look back at two specific moments in our lives where our trust was abused. It is not easy to write about one's own mistakes, but for posterity it is important to understand...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b2f9e-gambling-1995</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cab8ba6d22c86f75a4ef9a</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:54:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B2F9. DOBBEL 1995]]></title><description><![CDATA[OOMBLIKKE IN ONS LEWE-1  2026-03-29   O1B2F9. DOBBEL 1995     INLEIDING Die lewe loop nie altyd langs die veilige, uitgetrapte paaie van logiese besluite nie. Soms word mens se oordeelsvermoë verblind deur die glans van sukses, die oënskynlike integriteit van 'n bekende vriend, of die aanloklikheid van 'n "gulde geleentheid." In hierdie hoofstuk kyk ek terug op twee spesifieke oomblikke in ons lewe waar ons vertroue misbruik is. Dit is nie maklik om oor eie foute te skryf nie, maar vir die...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b2f9-dobbel-1995</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ca921e9ff7d57ccdbae8f9</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 15:10:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B2F8E. TOEKELS+POENA 1987]]></title><description><![CDATA[MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE-1  2026-03-27   O1B2F8E. TOEKELS+POENA 1987   This is a deeply moving and beautifully written memoir. The narrative is very powerful because it is so honest and emotional. It is clear that my cats were not just pets, but integral family members who walked with us through different phases of our lives.   The story of Poena, in particular, hits you like a punch between the eyes - her gentleness, how she won the trust of the "non-cat people", and the loyalty with which she...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b2f8e-toekels-poena-1987</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c7e26e3b87f276336c8d82</guid><pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2026 14:15:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B2F8. TOEKELS+POENA 1987]]></title><description><![CDATA[OOMBLIKKE IN ONS LEWE-1  2026-03-25   O1B2F8. TOEKELS+POENA 1987   Hierdie is 'n diep roerende en pragtig geskryfde herinnering. Die vertelling is baie kragtig omdat dit so eerlik en emosioneel is. Dit is duidelik dat my katte nie net troeteldiere was nie, maar integrale familielede wat saam met ons deur verskillende fases van die lewe gestap het.   Die storie van Poena, in die besonder, tref 'n mens soos ‘n hou tussen die oë - haar sagtheid, hoe sy die "nie-katmense" se vertroue gewen het,...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b2f8-toekels-poena-1987</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c6a00add6da1f8275dfd2b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2026 15:20:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B2F7E. MARINUS+MONDI 1982]]></title><description><![CDATA[MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE-1  2026-03-23   O1B2F7E. MARINUS+MONDI 1982   This is a moving addition to my life story. The contrast between the early years in Brackenfell with the "Polyotters" and the eventual farewell to Mondi forms a powerful circle in the narrative of Marinus's growing up years.   MARINUS - TEMPERAMENT AND FIDELITY   Marinus was born almost exactly two years after Christiaan, on 8 January 1982 07:30, in the Louis Leipoldt Hospital in Bellville. Dr. du Toit handled the birth. What...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b2f7e-marinus-mondi-1982</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c2fbff149f4fed564fff87</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2026 21:03:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O1B2F7. MARINUS+MONDI 1982]]></title><description><![CDATA[OOMBLIKKE IN ONS LEWE-1  2026-03-20   O1B2F7. MARINUS+MONDI 1982     Hierdie is 'n besondere en roerende toevoeging tot my lewensverhaal. Die kontras tussen die vroeë jare in Brackenfell met die "Polyotters" en die uiteindelike afskeid van Mondi vorm 'n kragtige sirkel in die vertelling van Marinus se grootwordjare.       MARINUS - GEAARDHEID EN GETROUHEID Marinus is omtrent presies twee jaar na Christiaan gebore, op 8 Januarie 1982 07:30, in die Louis Leipoldt hospitaal in Bellville. Dr. du...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/o1b2f7-marinus-1982</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c034ce0160b7de31519a3b</guid><pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2026 18:28:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[THE LITTLE VOICE INSIDE ]]></title><description><![CDATA[THE LITTLE VOICE INSIDE  - Hennie de Jager 2004-09-26   In March 1994, Zach de Beer said in an article about the DP, “The essence of our philosophy is the overwhelming value of the individual.”  That is the core principle for me, and it is probably why Brian Newton said of me at a dinner in Stellenbosch in the seventies, “Here is a true liberal,”  because I feel very strongly that every person has the right to decide for themselves what they want to do with their lives.   The big difference...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/the-little-voice-inside</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69bd5f2ebd46da1f6b26c81a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2026 14:52:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[DIE STEMMETJIE HIERBINNE]]></title><description><![CDATA[DIE STEMMETJIE HIERBINNE  - Hennie de Jager        2004-09-26   In Maart 1994 het Zach de Beer in ‘n artikel oor die DP gesê “Die wese van ons filosofie is die oorweldigende waarde van die individu.”  Dis vir my die kernbeginsel, en dis seker daaroor dat Brian Newton in die sewentigerjare in Stellenbosch van my by ‘n ete gesê het "Here is a true liberal" , want ek voel baie sterk daaroor dat elke mens die reg het om self te besluit wat jy met jou lewe wil maak.   Die groot verskil tussen...]]></description><link>https://www.oomblikke-moments.com/post/die-stemmetjie-hierbinne</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69bd5eacf20a14d188125326</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2026 14:50:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eee32a_033fea1ac49746c9a5b5ca6e58c20253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_844,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>henniej42</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>